You’ve been invited to a wedding but have a prior commitment that you cannot reschedule.
Choose ONE:
- Talk to the bride or groom and explain why you can’t attend the wedding.
- Talk to the person who invited you and explain why you can’t change your prior commitment.
Sample Answer for Option A - click to open/hide answer!
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Sample Answer:
Hi [Bride or Groom’s Name], I wanted to reach out and talk to you about the upcoming wedding. First of all, I’m incredibly honored to have been invited, and I was really looking forward to celebrating with you. However, I’ve realized that I have a prior commitment that I simply cannot reschedule. I’ve tried everything to make it work, but unfortunately, it’s just not possible. I’m truly sorry for any disappointment this may cause, and I hope you understand. I would still love to celebrate with you in some way, perhaps a smaller gathering at a later date. Please know that I’ll be thinking of you on your special day, and I wish you all the best for a beautiful wedding and a wonderful future together.
Sample Answer for Option B - click to open/hide answer!
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Hi [Person’s Name], I wanted to talk to you about a scheduling conflict I’ve encountered. I’ve been invited to a wedding on the same day as the prior commitment I made with you, and I’m in a bit of a dilemma. I’ve thought long and hard about it, and I’ve decided that I cannot change my prior commitment, as it’s something I’ve been planning for a long time. I’m really sorry if this causes any inconvenience, but I wanted to be upfront with you as soon as possible. I hope you understand, and I’d be happy to make it up to you in some way. Please let me know if there’s anything I can do to make this situation easier. Thanks for your understanding, and I appreciate your flexibility in this matter.
What this sample tests
Practice Dealing with a Difficult Situation with a realistic prompt about You’ve been invited to a wedding but have a prior commitment that you cannot reschedule. Focus on planning quickly and speaking clearly; you have 60 sec to prepare and 60 sec to respond. Aim for organized ideas, natural vocabulary, and steady pacing.